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NCF's 2020 Memorial Roll

2020 MEMORIAL ROSTER—New Church Family
For our 2020 Memorial observance, we pause to remember these 91 departed members and friends who have supported our church since its founding in 1986.
Billie Abner, Bruce Austin, Jeff Allen.
Bill Ballon, Jim Bebee, Ron Bergeron, Billie Boots, Dennis Blyth, Sally Brayton, Carl A. Brown, Brunhilda, Rev. James Buchanan, Jim Burkhalter, Cecil Burnette.
John Cadzo, Alan Columbia, Barbara Cook, Jerry Corlis, Marty Cox, Helene Coyne, Rick Croley, Ruth Cronk.
Tom Damron, Matthew Dilworth, Donnie Dudenhoffer, Kirk Dudenhoffer
Jeff Farance. Bill Finn, Eve & Eric Gillin, Ed Grinsell, Mark Haseman. Hazel Holt, Robert Hunold.
Aris Johnson, Fay Kelley, Lowell Kelm, David Kennedy & Bonnie Kennedy, Scott Kline. Walter Konak. Gerald Legg, Gloria Lesko, Rev. Jean Levy.
Helen Martell, Gretchen Martin, Gayle Meade, Michael McCray, Rev. Beau McDaniels, Dennis Moreno, Rev. Ted Morgan. William L. Murphy. Donna "Mom" Morris.
Linda Nelson, Gil O'Donnell, Frank Olzewski. Mary Agnes Page. Roy Panella. Rocky Wayne Pickett, Rev. Larry Ponder, Rev. Carol Pyles.
Robert Quantino. Bill Rebola. Jack Reed. Tom Reynolds. Charles Rigoll. Rev. John Rogers. Tim Ryan.
Holly Ann Scott, Tony Silvestro. Gene Sims. Michael Smolen. Jack Snyder. Al Steady. Rev. Steve Steele. Mark Sverha.
Nicole Turner, Mary Ann Taylor
Will Verick, Clarence Vion, Larry Vion, Jeff Walker, Rev. Tim Ward, Jackson Weaver, Stan Wetherald, Douglas Whiton, Margaret Wickham, Edmond J. Wieckowski, Chuck Wilford, Steve Womack, Bill Zimmerman

NCF names interim pastor

          Rev. Bill Dunlap of Deltona has agreed to lead Sunday services at New Church Family while the Pastoral Search Committee continues evaluating applicants for the pastor's position.

          Rev. Bill hails from Massachusetts where he pastored Congregational churches (which now are known as the United Church of Christ). He also has pastored churches in other states. Come to worship and meet Rev. Bill and his partner Wayne McLean.

Jerry Corlis Obituary

JERRY CORLIS – In Memoriam
Gerald E. “Jerry” Corlis, 83, the longest-serving member of New Church Family, died April 11 from the Covid-19 virus after several days of treatment at AdventHealth-Daytona Beach Hospital.
Jerry helped to organize our church in 1986 when it was part of the Metropolitan Community Church. He continued serving the church as a board member when Hope MCC became independent and reorganized as New Church Family in 2008. For decades, he led our church’s congregation care ministry, making countless visits and telephone calls to hospitals, nursing homes and home-bound members. He also worked as a staff assistant to the late Rev. Beau McDaniels during her nine years as pastor.
Jerry also was well-known as an antiques dealer, operating Jerry’s Bargain Barn on Center Avenue in Holly Hill for many years. Later, he helped his partner, Terry Parnell, operate Terry’s Home Fashions at Nova & Sixth Street, Holly Hill. He was active in the Greater Daytona Beach Business Guild, helping it organize some of the area’s early Gay Pride Festivals.
Jerry made his home on Granada Avenue in Holly Hill for nearly 30 years, renting rooms to low-income people in need of temporary shelter.
Born in East Syracuse, N.Y. on March 28, 1937 he was the son of Ralph C. and Grace M. Corlis. He was a graduate of the old East Syracuse High School. Before relocating to Florida, he operated Jerry's Flower Shop in East Syracuse.
In addition to Terry, his partner of 18 years, Jerry is survived by his brothers, Ernest of Williamstown N.Y., Ralph of East Syracuse NY and Richard of Altmar NY; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.
Burial will be in Stockner Cemetery, Fancy Gap, VA. His family asks that donations be sent to Minoa Methodist Church, 246 East Ave., Minoa, NY 13116. New Church Family also has established a Memorial Fund in his honor. To leave a guest book tribute, please visit: www.SCHEPPFAMILY.com

The Wired Word Lesson about 'Good News' in Virus Time

(Editor's Note: Thank you to Erika Henderson of the Port Orange United Church of Christ for sharing this uplifting lesson about "Good News" )

 

Our wired word lesson, which notes the launch of a new YouTube channel called Some Good News, or SGN. The topic seemed particularly appropriate for Resurrection Sunday, when the best news ever was delivered to frightened women in a graveyard.

The Some Good News program, created by actor John Krasinski of The Office and Jack Ryan fame, was an immediate hit, trending #1 on the internet. We take the opportunity to examine what the Bible says about the gospel and good news, how Jesus is God's ultimate good news, and how we can communicate that good news to others hungry for hope in these anxious times.

Here is the facebook mini lesson I posted on this:

Proverbs 15:30
"The light of the eyes rejoices the heart,
and good news refreshes the body."

This Easter Sunday's Wired Word is on the need for good news. When so many news stories present bad news, whether they deal with the pandemic, natural disasters, war, the refugee crisis, political divisiveness, racial conflict, violence, etc., we may be tempted to despair. The biblical message of the gospel presents Jesus as God's ultimate good news. We consider how we can communicate good news to others hungry for hope in these anxious times.

Actor John Krasinski, of the TV shows The Office and Jack Ryan, wondered for years why he couldn't find a news show dedicated entirely to good news. Finally he asked himself, "All right. Enough is enough, world. Why not us? Why not now?"
So he invited his Twitter followers to share good news stories with him. When they began to pour in, Krasinski started a YouTube channel called SGN, which means Some Good News (currently, the show is known by both names). The show is trending #1 this week, an indicator, perhaps, of the hunger of people for good news in a time when bad news seems to be overwhelming the airwaves.

Questions for discussion: 1. What news would you consider good news today? 2. Who needs to hear some good news from you today? 3. How can you become part of a movement to spread good news rather than bad in your community and sphere of influence? Why does Easter and spring cheer people up so much?

During Anxious Times, People Crave Good News
The Wired Word for the Week of April 12, 2020

In the News

Actor John Krasinski, of the TV shows The Office and Jack Ryan, wondered for years why he couldn't find a news show dedicated entirely to good news. Finally he asked himself, "All right. Enough is enough, world. Why not us? Why not now?"

So he invited his Twitter followers to share good news stories with him. When they began to pour in, Krasinski started a YouTube channel called SGN, which means Some Good News (currently, the show is known by both names). The show is trending #1 this week, an indicator, perhaps, of the hunger of people for good news in a time when bad news seems to be overwhelming the airwaves.

So we decided to check out some of the websites that focus on good news recommended by Krasinski. Here's a sample of what we discovered:

A Detroit man spent $900 to fill the gas tanks of nurses' cars to thank them for their work during the outbreak.
The Roush family in Ohio started a "drive-thru chat" so people could have someone to talk to face to face while practicing safe social distancing. Corrine Roush said the family's initiative has been "such a light during what has felt like such a dark time."
Students at MIT have been working on developing an affordable alternative to scarce and expensive ventilators desperately needed by hospitals in this country and across the globe. Another student has been making face masks with windows so the hearing-impaired can read the lips of their health-care providers.
Everyone from celebrities, major companies, tattoo artists and professional athletes are donating money and supplies to hospitals to help in the fight to save lives.
People who have recovered from COVID-19 are donating their blood plasma to help those now sickened by the disease.
Teachers are driving by the homes of their students to drop off supplies, leave balloons in driveways, and stand outside windows with whiteboards to explain a math lesson to a child confined indoors.
Communities have mobilized to place stuffed animals in windows so children can "hunt" for bears while riding in cars or getting some exercise.
A Colorado woman sends her golden retriever dog Sundance, aka Sunny, to deliver groceries to a neighbor who has been advised not to leave her home because an underlying health condition makes her more at risk of infection.
Instead of writing a ticket to a motorist who had been speeding, a law enforcement officer donated some of his own N95 face masks to her after learning that she was a doctor.
Health-care professionals, firefighters and law-enforcement officers are coming out of retirement to relieve exhausted front-line workers.
Chefs whose restaurants are shuttered have taken to making sack lunches and hot meals for staff, students, the unemployed, the homeless, the hungry. A Sacramento eatery is donating all its March profits to help other struggling restaurants. Meanwhile, singer and philanthropist Bon Jovi is washing dishes at a restaurant, and the queen of Malaysia is preparing meals for hospital workers.
Kroger, the largest grocery chain in the United States, is giving employees bonus pay for working during the pandemic.
Brewers, glove makers and auto manufacturers retool their factories to produce hand sanitizer, PPE (personal protective equipment) and ventilators.
Hotels are providing rooms for use by health workers who are unable to go home, and average citizens are loaning RVs to medical personnel for the duration.
Texas Roadhouse announced that its CEO, W. Kent Taylor, will redirect about 10 months worth of his base salary and bonus to pay front-line workers.
While the pandemic and shutdown of major swaths of the global economy are causing undeniable pain, satellite images from space show a reduction of pollution in many areas, which scientists say should have at least small, if temporary, benefits to the environment and health.

Using the hashtags #FlowerBoostChallenge and #BuyFlowersNotToiletPaper, the Dutch Van der Ende manufacturing company spearheaded an initiative to encourage businesses to buy plants and flowers to give to hospitals, care centers, workers and ordinary citizens to cheer them up. More than 1,000 companies in the Netherlands answered the call, purchasing over 1 million flowers to support the nation's hard-hit floriculture sector.

From the "Clap for Carers" tribute in the UK to the belting of operatic arias in hard-hit Italy, people are applauding medics and cheering neighbors from balconies, lawns and rooftops. Though physically separated, they are joined in sentiments of patriotism, pride, lamentation, anxiety, gratitude and hope. From the silly to the sublime, artists, dancers, comedians and musicians cocooned in their own homes behind multiple computer screens are creating beauty, good humor, community, harmony and unison through the wonder of technology.

Canadians Mita Hans and Valentina Harper began a "caremongering" movement on social media to counter "scaremongering," connect volunteers with people who need help, and create camaraderie, hope and "a contagion of kindness." Paul Viennau said that the help he received through the Halifax caremongering group felt "like a hug." Another participant, Rhia Rave Fae, said the caremongering group was "a safe haven to restore my faith in humanity ... shows the good in people, and proves we can do amazing things when we come together."

In the few episodes Some Good News (SGN) has produced thus far, Krasinski concludes with some version of this statement: "Remember, no matter how tough things get, there's always good in the world."

More on this story can be found at these links:

Some Good News With John Krasinski, Episode 1 (Video 15:43). Some Good News
Good News Network Home Page. Good News Network
Good News Dashboard for COVID-19. InspireMore
Tank's Good News Home Page. tanksgoodnews.com
Coronavirus: The Good That Can Come Out of an Upside-down World - BBC News
Italians Find 'A Moment of Joy in This Moment of Anxiety.' The New York Times

Applying the News Story

When so many news stories present bad news, whether they deal with the pandemic, natural disasters, war, the refugee crisis, political divisiveness, racial conflict, violence, etc., we may be tempted to despair. The biblical message of the gospel presents Jesus as God's ultimate good news. We consider how we can communicate good news to others hungry for hope in these anxious times.

The Big Questions

1. What news would you consider good news today? What is the good news you think people are yearning to hear?

2. Where have you heard or seen good news since the outbreak of the coronavirus?

3. What is the good news or gospel described in the Bible?

4. How is the gospel like and unlike the common, everyday variety of good news?

5. Who needs to hear some good news from you today? How can you become part of a movement to spread good news rather than bad in your community and sphere of influence?

Confronting the News With Scripture and Hope
Here are some Bible verses to guide your discussion:

Proverbs 15:30
The light of the eyes rejoices the heart,
and good news refreshes the body. (For context, read 15:30-33.)
Proverbs 25:25
Like cold water to a thirsty soul,
so is good news from a far country. (No context needed.)

When you haven't heard from a loved one for a long time, you may feel concern over their welfare. Such concern is likely to be heightened in a time of tension, stress, or danger. You may lose sleep or not eat properly because of your anxiety. Then you get a long-awaited phone call, text, email, or message on social media, telling you that all is well. Suddenly your appetite returns, and you can get a good night's sleep again.

In these verses, the writer of Proverbs speaks to the reality that good news has a positive impact on physical and emotional health. Even if you are unable to be together with your loved one at that moment in time, just receiving good news about that person is enough to brighten your mood.

Questions: Think of a time when good news refreshed your soul. What made it so special? How did the good news affect your thoughts and actions?

Isaiah 52:7-10
How beautiful upon the mountains
are the feet of the messenger who announces peace,
who brings good news,
who announces salvation,
who says to Zion, "Your God reigns."
Listen! Your sentinels lift up their voices,
together they sing for joy;
for in plain sight they see
the return of the LORD to Zion.
Break forth together into singing,
you ruins of Jerusalem;
for the LORD has comforted his people,
he has redeemed Jerusalem.
The LORD has bared his holy arm
before the eyes of all the nations;
and all the ends of the earth shall see
the salvation of our God. (For context, read 52:3-10.)

The prophet reminds the people of their history as aliens in Egypt and of the oppression they suffered at the hands of the Assyrians (vv. 3-4). God announces his presence with his people (v. 6); he has not abandoned them.

In Luke 4:18-21, Jesus quotes from Isaiah 61:1-2, identifying himself as the one the Spirit of God has anointed "to bring good news to the poor." Combined with the Isaiah 52 text, we see Jesus as "the messenger who announces peace, who brings good news, who announces salvation, who says to Zion, 'Your God reigns'" (v. 7).

That matches the description of his ministry as the proclamation of "the good news of the kingdom," which Matthew combines with his "curing every disease and every sickness among the people (Matthew 4:23-24). His consistent message of good news was that "the kingdom of God has come near" (Mark 1:1, 14-15).

But Jesus does more than convey a message from God; he is God's message. An angel of the Lord announced the birth of Christ the Savior, Messiah and Lord, as "good news of great joy for all the people" (Luke 2:8-14). John called Jesus "the word of God" in John 1:14, 18. That message is contained in another of his names, "Emmanuel, or God with us" (Matthew 1:23). He not only carries God's message to humanity, he is God's good news.

So when deacon Philip met the Ethiopian eunuch on the road to Gaza, "he proclaimed to him the good news about Jesus" (Acts 8:35).

Questions: Why would the poor hear the announcement that God's kingdom had come near as good news? What does Isaiah say accompanies the inauguration of God's reign?

Who are the sentinels who lift up their voices, singing together for joy at the sight of the Lord's return to Zion (v. 8)?

Why is Jesus at the heart of God's good news? How is Jesus good news for us today?

Acts 13:30-33
But God raised him from the dead; and for many days he appeared to those who came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, and they are now his witnesses to the people. And we bring you the good news that what God promised to our ancestors he has fulfilled for us, their children, by raising Jesus; as also it is written in the second psalm, 'You are my Son; today I have begotten you.' (For context, read 13:13-39.)

In Antioch in Pisidia, Paul gave a lesson in the history of the Israelites, from the Exodus to the gift of a Savior, Jesus, as God had promised (vv. 13-23). Paul recounted how Jesus was unjustly condemned to death, executed, and buried (vv. 27-29).

Paul quoted from the psalms about how God would not let the body of his chosen one decay. Jesus' ancestor, King David, died and was laid to rest in a tomb, so he could not have been the one to whom the passage refers. But because God raised Jesus from the dead, his body did not decay as all mortal bodies do after death (v. 37). Therefore, he is the one who fulfilled God's promise. And it is through him, Paul said, that the good news of forgiveness and liberation from sins is proclaimed (vv. 38-39).

In 2 Timothy 2:8-9, Paul defined the gospel or good news, for which he suffered hardship and being shackled like a criminal, as the person of "Jesus Christ, raised from the dead, a descendant of David." The good news refers specifically to "Jesus and the resurrection" (Acts 17:18).

Paul proclaimed Christ's death for our sins, burial and resurrection, as good news "of first importance," citing multiple resurrection appearances as evidence that Jesus came back from death and lives again (1 Corinthians 15:1-8).

From these verses, we conclude that the good news or gospel, as Paul defined it, is found in God's fulfillment of his promise, in the person and work of the risen Christ, and in the freedom from the power and consequences of sin experienced by those who believe and receive Jesus as God's message.

Questions: What makes God's promise keeping such good news for us? What makes Jesus' resurrection good news?

In what sense are God's people still witnesses of Jesus' resurrection? How do you bear witness to others that Jesus is alive today?

1 Thessalonians 3:6-10
But Timothy has just now come to us from you, and has brought us the good news of your faith and love. He has told us also that you always remember us kindly and long to see us -- just as we long to see you. For this reason, brothers and sisters, during all our distress and persecution we have been encouraged about you through your faith. For we now live, if you continue to stand firm in the Lord. How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy that we feel before our God because of you? Night and day we pray most earnestly that we may see you face to face and restore whatever is lacking in your faith. (For context, read 3:1-13.)

In the previous chapter, Paul wrote that he and his coworkers had courageously declared the gospel (good news) of God to the Thessalonians in spite of great opposition (2:2). He said that though they could have made demands of the Thessalonians, they were "gentle" with them, "like a nurse tenderly caring for her own children," caring so deeply for them that they shared "not only the gospel (good news) of God but also [their] own selves," working "night and day" so as not to burden them (2:7-9).

Later in the chapter, Paul characterized the agony they felt at being separated from the Thessalonians as being "made orphans," though he said they were distanced from them "in person, not in heart" (2:17), blocked from reuniting with them by Satan (2:18). Finally, when Paul couldn't stand the separation any longer, he sent Timothy to Thessalonica to see how the believers were faring and to strengthen their faith and encourage them to persevere in the face of persecution (3:1-5).

There is something deeply moving about the language Paul uses to describe his relationship with the Thessalonians, especially when we consider the sacrifices being made every day by EMTs, nurses, doctors and others on the front lines of the fight against the pandemic. Many, if not most of the patients they attend are complete strangers, yet they treat the sick with gentleness and tenderness, as if they were their own family members. Some even give their own lives in the effort to save others.

Paul was greatly encouraged when Timothy brought back the good news of the Thessalonians' faith, love and faithfulness. Again and again Paul expresses his longing to see them face to face, gushing fairly rhapsodic in his affection for them.

In this period of social distancing, health-care workers may well feel like orphans, in many cases unable to be with their own family members, for fear of passing contagion to those they love. They are separated "in person, not in heart," blocked from rejoining their loved ones by a power that seems as overwhelming as evil itself. So when they receive messages of love and appreciation from members of their families and communities, they may feel, as Paul did, that their labor has not all been in vain.

While the "good news" of the faith and love of the Thessalonians doesn't rise to the level of significance of the gospel or good news of God in Jesus Christ, Paul still prizes that good news highly.

Questions: When have you been encouraged to persevere in your faith by good news that others are growing in their faith, love and faithfulness? How might you be motivated to keep following Christ when you realize that your endurance encourages others? How can you become "good news" to encourage others during this challenging time?

For Further Discussion

1. "In Ephesians [1:4], we are told that God chose us to be his children 'before the foundation of the world.' Do you realize that this refers to you, to me, to each one of us?" So wrote Archbishop Desmond Tutu in his book, God Has a Dream: A Vision of Hope for Our Time.
"Before the foundation of the world, before we were conceived," Tutu continued, "God had already decided he wanted us. Long before we could have done anything to earn it, to deserve it, God freely, graciously chose you, chose me, chose each one of us to be his children. It could not depend on whether we were good. It could not depend on our ability to impress God, on our success.
"That is the Good News: that God loved us, that God loves us, and that God will love us forever unchangingly. You don't need to do anything at all because God loves you already long before you could do anything to impress him. ... in a sense, it actually doesn't matter what we do. For nothing we can do, no matter how bad, will change God's love for us. ... Just like a mother loves her child no matter what, so God loves you even if you don't succeed, even if you don't win."
"Your goodness can't win God's love. Nor can your badness lose it," echoed Max Lucado in his book, 3:16 - The Numbers of Hope. "Mark it down: God loves you with an unearthly love. You can't win it by being winsome. You can't lose it by being a loser. But you can be blind enough to resist it."
When, if ever, have you found it difficult to believe the Good News that God loves you unconditionally? What has hindered your belief in God's love? Why would anyone resist the love of God?
What has strengthened your belief that God loves you? How might the conviction that God loves you unconditionally help you face trials and endure hardship?

2. In her book, Catching Fireflies: Teaching Your Heart to See God's Light Everywhere, Patsy Clairmont describes an early-morning telephone call she received from an unknown woman who wanted to tell her about a dream she had in which she was conversing with Patsy on the phone.
When the caller woke up, she couldn't figure out what the dream meant. So she prayed for illumination. She felt God saying that she should tell Patsy Clairmont that God had not forgotten her. The problem? The woman had no idea who Patsy was.
Then one day, when the woman was doing a bit of spring cleaning, she pulled a book off her bookshelf. It had been given to her many years before, but she had never read it. It was an anthology of essays by a variety of authors, one of whom was Patsy Clairmont. Suddenly, the instruction she had received about giving Patsy a message came back to her.
So the dreamer tracked down Patsy's phone number and delivered the message to the author: "God has not forgotten you."
Patsy was deeply touched that God would send such an encouraging message to her through a stranger's dream. But she marveled even more at the wonder of God's love when she remembered that she had been asking God to clarify what message she should share with the women who would attend conferences where she was to speak that year. She realized that the message, "God has not forgotten you," delivered by a total stranger, was the answer to her prayer, and the message God had for Patsy's listeners.
"My friend, God has not forgotten you," Patsy wrote in Catching Fireflies. "He knows your sorrow, your troubles, your finances, your fears, and your dreams -- and he has not forgotten you. He promises to redeem our hardships for our good. Sometimes we think that if God doesn't fix or change our struggles, then he must have forgotten us. Nothing could be further from the truth."
Who do you know who may be feeling lonely and forgotten? How can you reach out to convey the good news that they are not forgotten, but that they are loved, appreciated, and remembered?

3. From a post on social media, author unknown:
"If they cancel the rest of the school year, students would miss 2.5 months of education. Many people are concerned about students falling behind because of this. Yes, they may fall behind when it comes to classroom education ...
"But what if ...
"What if instead of falling 'behind,' this group of kids are ADVANCED because of this?
"What if they have more empathy, they enjoy family connection, they can be more creative and entertain themselves, they love to read, they love to express themselves in writing?
"What if they enjoy the simple things, like their own backyard and sitting near a window in the quiet?
"What if they notice the birds and the dates the different flowers emerge, and the calming renewal of a gentle rain shower?
"What if [they] learn to cook, organize their space, do their laundry, and keep a well-run home?
"What if they learn to stretch a dollar and to live with less?
"What if they learn to plan shopping trips and meals at home?
"What if they learn the value of eating together as a family and finding the good to share in the small delights of the everyday?
"What if they ... place great value on our teachers and educational professionals, librarians, public servants and the previously invisible essential support workers like truck drivers, grocers, cashiers, custodians, logistics, and health-care workers and their supporting staff, just to name a few of the millions taking care of us right now while we are sheltered in place?
"What if among these children, a great leader emerges who had the benefit of a slower pace and a simpler life to truly learn what really matters in this life?"
What is the main point the author of this post is trying to make? What biblical principles might undergird the author's point?

4. Discuss this, from TWW team member Bill Tammeus: "It's good news when people have homes in which they're stuck; it's good news when they have running hot water and soap with which to wash their hands; it's good news when they have Internet service and electricity and phones to stay connected to the world outside; it's good news when they have a faith community and clergy who care about them in this difficult time."
How should we view our own challenges, given that many people around the world, including some in our own country, lack many of the basics that we often take for granted?

5. Author Max Lucado wrote in his book, 3:16 - The Numbers of Hope, "Life at times appears to fall to pieces, seem irreparable. But it's going to be okay. How can you know? Because God so loved the world. And, ... if God can make a billion galaxies, can't he make good out of our bad and sense out of our faltering lives? Of course he can. He is God."
Where do you see evidence of the love of God for the world today? Where do you see God making "good out of our bad and sense out of our faltering lives"?

6. A few years ago, former U.S. Army officer Michael Michalko suggested that creativity could be sharpened by what he called "assumption reversal," which amounts to a paradigm shift of accepted notions and norms.
When assumption reversal happens, new business models can carve out niche markets or even change an entire industry. For example, what if, instead of assuming that taxi companies have to own cars, you envision a taxi company without car ownership? Now you have Uber and Lyft.
New ways of thinking can also change social structures, how governments operate, and how people relate to one another, to their environment and to their culture.
Matthew Syed, author of Rebel Ideas: the Power of Diverse Thinking, suggests that while the pandemic is causing undeniable pain, we may find unexpected opportunities if we use the disruption to "reimagine the world and [our] place within it."
What if core ideas we presume to be true may not be? If we "disrupt conventional thought patterns," what new, creative ideas might emerge?
Try using assumption reversal to rethink just one sector of our society. Take education, for example. Now that brick and mortar schools are shut down, how will we educate our children? How will we even define education? How will the relationship between parents and educators change?
What subjects and skills will we emphasize after the pandemic (hopefully) subsides? Will we place more emphasis on nurturing qualities such as generosity, kindness, altruism and emotional and social intelligence, and teaching skills such as improvisation, collaboration, debating, or thinking on one's feet rather than just memorizing data?

7. In the book, Attitudes of Gratitude: How to Give and Receive Joy Every Day of Your Life, M.J. Ryan wrote:

"Our attitudes determine everything, because they are the glasses through which we see the world. Is the world a wonderful place or a hellhole? ... the answer to that question depends on our attitude on any given day."
"Expectations are the killers of gratitude and joy. If you expect to live in the Taj Mahal, your cozy little cottage will feel pretty awful; if you expect your son to become a doctor, you can't appreciate him for the fine bodyworker that he is; if you focus on how you are going to be miserable without a BMW, your trusty, rusty Toyota that reliably gets you around will only bring you misery. Having hopes, dreams and visions for the future are one thing; it's important to have goals and schemes pulling us into the future. But we need to be careful that such envisioning doesn't get in the way of appreciating the things we have in the here and now. Let's not miss the beauty of our actual lives while we're lusting after a mythical perfect life."
"Practice No Matter What. Before you go into a situation, ask yourself, 'What is it that I can learn, accomplish, or experience here, no matter what happens?'"

Discuss how your attitudes and expectations have impacted the way you experience life.

Responding to the News

1. You may want to add links to good news websites (some are listed above) to your favorites or bookmarks on your computer or phone so you can find them easily when you need encouragement. Consider sharing these links or others like them on social media to brighten the day of others who need some good news.

2. Here are a few links to online resources that may help you deal with cabin fever while social movement is more restricted.

Discover the Museums. Museivaticani.va
Nightly Met Opera Streams. Metopera.org
The Good Road. aptonline.org
Art Camp from Home. The Bass Museum of Art
How to Turn Yourself Into a Potato (and Other Things) for Zoom Meetings, Teams Calls and More. Pocket-lint.com

3. You might want to tie a piece of yarn or string around your finger to remind yourself that God has not forgotten you, nor will God forget you during this time of social isolation.

Prayer

God our Father, who sent your Son as your message of good news to humankind, help us to hear your message clearly, to embrace it and share it with the world, in the hope of eternal life and power of your Spirit. Amen.

April 8 Lenten devotion by Rev. Diane Langworthy

 Thank you to Rev. Diane at UCC New Smyrna Beach for sharing this Lenten  devotion with us.

April 8, 2020

Wednesday night, before Maundy Thursday, I am still hoping to finish this devotion before midnight! Our Gospel reading today includes Jesus admonishing the disciples to be at the ready like servants, waiting for their master to return from a wedding banquet. The servants need to be alert, “...even if he comes in the second or third watch of the night.” It’s feeling a bit like that tonight. I’m really feeling ready to go to bed... but, I did feel called to write these little reflections after we all got locked in with coronavirus threats. (At least through Lent, which isn’t over yet.) I could list the responsibilities I waded through today... I didn’t start this late because I was not doing anything. Pastors are busy during Holy Week, even (maybe especially!) when they are housebound. So, as I wrestle with whether to finish this last task or call it a night. I look again at the Gospel. Jesus concludes, “You must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.” What does it mean, at any point in time for us to “be ready” for Jesus’ return? Every day there are many choices... things to do... things to leave undone and day after day, even stuck in the house for yet another day, there are relentless choices. How we make them shapes our readiness.

I almost always recommend that folks be more gentle with themselves than they have been. This is not such a gentle passage, though. Jesus talks about a range of punishment for the non-ready servants, from being “cut to pieces” (really! See Luke 12:46), to being beaten with “many blows,” to being beaten with a “few blows”. There’s a range of consequences from becoming toast, to almost toast, to singed around the edges. In the context of Jesus’ “what if” parable, the guy who is total toast at the end is the one who is eating and drinking and beating his fellow servants, male and female. He is gluttonously consuming everything and inflicting pain on others. This is intolerable, says Jesus, to the point that death is the only fair wage for such “service”. Okay. Share and don’t inflict pain on others. That is a clear limit. What does it mean in the days of coronavirus when trips to the store are risky? How do we choose what we take and leave for others? How do we help one another? How do we reach out to folks who have lost their income? Given that we are all servants and everything we have comes from God, are we good sharers?

Is there a way our choices were harming others? I can’t help noticing that as we all step back and are forced to stop “business as usual” the environment is healing in startling ways. Dolphins swim in canals in Italy again. The Himalayan mountains have again become visible at a great distance. Smog is clearing. Animals are dancing in new places. It feels like nature is crying out with joy, “See, this is what I am called to be when you don’t abuse me!” Can we learn from this? Certainly, this is worse than the bad servant who was beating his fellow servants. We’ve been beating down future generations by trampling what was created to sustain all life. Do we care?

The servants who get beaten with many blows are ones who KNOW what they are supposed to do, know the master’s will, but refuse to follow through. Hmmm. Are we READY? Those things that are a call in our lives, those things that make our hearts sing and bring joy to others, are we following through with those things? God’s call, God’s will for us, matters. God starts with what we are good at and nudges us to share those gifts... to put them in service! Are we ready or asleep at the wheel?

The guys who get a consequence, but a light one, are the servants who really didn’t know any better. They just didn’t KNOW. “From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.” (Luke 12:48b) That can sound like advice to avoid learning anything! Maybe we should quit this One Year Bible business if what we learn can work against us! Often, we fear to do deep listening to God because underneath we can fear that God will ask too much, that we just won’t be equal to it, that God will ask something we can’t stand... like be a missionary in a jungle when you are scared witless of snakes. But that is not how God works in our hearts. Jesus was crazy patient with His disciples. He told stories to try and wake them up, but when it came time to take a beating, when it came time to die... He was the one who stepped in and took our place.

That is a lot to take in, but I think it’s important to try. So, I stayed up to write this devotion, but now, I am sure I am called to sleep! Sometimes sleep IS the faithful thing to do.

Lenten Devotion, March 26, 2020

 A big thank you to Rev. Diane Langworthy at United Church of Christ, New Smyrna Beach, for sharing this Lenten devotion:

Devotion in the time of Lent and Coronavirus

March 26, 2020

Today’s reading from Deuteronomy includes the ten commandments. Before a single commandment is offered God is quoted as introducing the subject of commandments with the statement, “I am the Lord your God Who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” Remember, yesterday we talked about remembering being the first step in a way back to God if we have started to stray? Remembering is key to staying the course when we are on the right track, too. God introduces the ten commandments with a powerful reminder that God is the one Who frees God’s people. God showed the Hebrews a way to escape bondage. Before the commandments are given, God asks that they remember this. God’s commands are not intended to tie us up. They are a way of life for folks who want to live free!

There are many ways we can feel enslaved today even if we’ve never been to Egypt. Some of us have experienced childhood abuse. Some of us wrestle with anxiety. Sometimes we are so tied up in self-consciousness that we have never felt free to explore our own gifts. Sometimes we are so busy judging ourselves and our shortcomings we never dare to answer our true calling. Sometimes we wrestle with too much anger. Sometimes we are so depressed we can’t take that next step. Sometimes substances have enslaved us. Sometimes a bad relationship ties us in knots. There are lots of Egypts in our lives. Before we try to do anything that God asks, God says, “Remember I am the Lord your God Who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” For the worst of our bondage today, our God is still the God who leads us out of enslavement. Our God is the God of people who live free! As we read the commandments, we may recall little sayings we’ve heard (like a sign I have in my church office) ... “God gave us ten commandments, not ten suggestions.” God means for us to find a way to keep these boundaries. Free people always keep healthy boundaries.

The last sentence of our Gospel reading today, Luke 7:35 is near the heart of Jesus’ message, “But wisdom is proved right by all her children.” This understanding is critical for maintaining healthy boundaries and living free. In short, we cannot truly love one another until we understand what He was driving at. Jesus calls people on the ways they judge one another, and this is seriously interfering with their ability to recognize the Messiah when He is standing right there. He points out that “John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and you say, ‘He has a demon.’ The Son of Man came eating and drinking and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and ‘sinners’” ... then Jesus says the part about all of Wisdom’s children. The point is, there are a LOT of different ways to live a healthy life. And both an aesthetic out in the desert fasting and never touching a drop of alcohol and Christ, Who never missed a good party and even made wine when it ran short, both were a part of God’s plan to reach each and every person. There is a way to move closer to God through fasting and self-denial. There is a way through joining a celebration. We are really different people with really different life stories, but we are all precious in the sight of God.

God creates a child of Wisdom in each one of us, when we dare to be freed. So many ways of being can be healing or harmful depending on our own personalities, gifts, weaknesses and life journey so far. In our Gospel lesson today, Jesus invites us to quit deciding WE are the arbiters of other people’s responses to God. We can only know how God moves our heart and what choices God calls us to escape and where God calls us to venture in. Wisdom has a bazillion children. May God continue to strengthen each of us for nurturing, not judging, one another’s calls and ways of growing in the Spirit.

Jesus says, don’t be childish, assuming YOU are in charge of the feelings and responses of others. “...calling out to one another, ‘We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we sang a dirge and you did not cry’” In this time of self-quarantine and not nearly enough hugs and hanging out with friends, let’s keep checking in on one another, mindful that different things will be a challenge for different people. Different sources of strength will hold us. Let’s ask and listen and let’s hold off on judging, because, clearly, we’ve been wrong before. Nevertheless, by God (really, right beside God!) each of us is a wise child walking to our freedom!

"No matter who you are or where you are on life's journey, you are always welcome here!"

 

NCF Virus Update March 22, 2020

  The congregation of New Church Family voted unanimously to suspend church services and social events for at least a month, pending further crowd-control guidance from the federal government.

    The decision came after the U.S Centers for Disease Control urged Americans to avoid congregating in group any larger than 10 in order to slow the spread of highly contagious coronovirus, Earlier, the CDC had been recommending a crowd limit of 25 to control the epidemic.

   Board President Dennis Brooks said the church will continue conducting outreach, using our web site, our Facebook Group page and email, as well as traditional contacts by telephone. The church telephone, 386-527-5952, remains in operation, and its Word Up newsletter will continue publishing. We encourage members to share their prayer requests, music videos inspirational essays and community news.

   We also ask members to mail their tithes to the church regularly (or use Pay Pal) so we can continue to meet building expenses -- utilities, insurance, alarm system and the like. April 5 is the next First Sunday monthly collection to support our Benevolence Fund.

 

RAINBOW ALLIANCE SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATION FORM 2020-2021

NEW CHURCH FAMILY encourages LGBTQ students to consider applying for one of these scholarships. COPY & PRINT OUT the form, fill it out and mail it before APRIL 1. Alternatively, you can bring the application to the NCF building, the location of the Rainbow Alliance's mail drop. Questions? E-mail Tom Brown, Alliance secretary, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

VOLUSIA-FLAGLER RAINBOW ALLIANCE

2020-2021 Scholarship Application

INTRODUCTION—The Volusia-Flagler Rainbow Alliance, a GLBTQ service group, is pleased to offer scholarships for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender students attending or planning to attend a college, university, or post-secondary vocational program between July 1, 2020, and June 30, 2021. The purpose of these scholarships is to promote and support the GLBTQ community in Volusia and Flagler counties and encourage leadership. It is expected that one or more grants in the $500-$1000 range will be awarded. The grants, made payable to the educational institution, may be spent on tuition, campus room and board, books or supplies. An applicant must be nominated (See item 1, below). Recipients will be chosen by the Alliance’s Scholarship Committee on the basis of academic achievement, financial need, and service to the Volusia-Flagler GLBTQ community. Preference will be given to applicants who are enrolled in a college, university or vocational school within Volusia or Flagler counties.

A complete application—typed, computer-printed, or hand-printed legibly in ink—should be mailed to Volusia-Flagler Rainbow Alliance, Attn: Scholarships, 3520 W. International Speedway Blvd., Daytona Beach, FL. 32124 no later than APRIL 1, 2020. Extra sheets may be attached for questions 13-16; be sure that your name appears on each sheet and that each response is numbered to match the corresponding question. The Rainbow Alliance may reject incomplete applications and applications not received by the deadline. Please retain a copy for your own records. Applicants must accept or decline an award by June 30, 2019.

APPLICATION/NOMINATION

1. Name and contact information (e-mail or telephone number) for the nominator:

NOTE: The applicant must be nominated. The nominator can be a faculty member, school official, counselor, adviser, officer of a school club or community organization, clergy person, employer, a neighbor, or someone else who knows the applicant well— but not a spouse, partner, parent, or other relative. The nominator is to provide a brief note (100 words maximum) telling: a) why the individual is being nominated, b) providing information to support or clarify the application and c) confirming that the applicant identifies as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. The nomination can be included with the application or mailed separately to the Scholarship Committee by the APRIL 1 deadline:

2. Full legal name of the applicant:

3. Gender or transgender identity:

4. Date of birth:

5. Last four digits of the applicant’s Social Security number (for ID verification only; this data will be kept confidential):

6. Citizenship (If not a U.S. citizen, copies of legal documents for residing in the U.S. are to be included: visa, green card, student visa, etc.):

7. Permanent legal address: (street)

(city) (state) (Zip) (nation)

8. Current mailing address (only if different from above):

9. Telephone number(s):

10. E-mail address:

EDUCATION COMPLETED:

11. Submit an official copy of a current transcript, or ask his/her school to submit a transcript to the Committee.

FINANCIAL NEED:

12. Attach a copy of the applicant’s federal application for financial aid.

ACHIEVEMENTS AND SERVICE:

13. List up to five academic or service prizes, scholarships, or other forms of recognition you have received in high school or college, or for community work. Briefly describe the award. (Examples: National Honor Society member; Dean’s List for four semesters; varsity letter in football ):

14. List and give brief details for up to five of the applicant’s most significant extracurricular activities and/or examples of volunteer service (Examples: Charity projects, church work, Big Brothers/Big Sisters; Pride Festival volunteering, etc.):

15. Summarize, in 200 words or fewer, the applicant’s interest in one or more gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender issues or topics. Tell what the applicant has done to become knowledgeable about, and support, an aspect of GLBTQ culture, equality, or justice.

GOALS:

16. State a career goal, at least one personal goal (not work-related), and one goal having to do with the promotion and support of the GLBT community in Volusia and Flagler counties and/or encourage leadership in it that the applicant intends to achieve within the next one to five years. Explain briefly (200 words or fewer) why the goals are important to the applicant.

SIGNATURE:

By signing and dating this application, I affirm that all information in this document is up-to-date and accurate to the best of my knowledge. I give the Rainbow Alliance permission to verify the information, and to use my name in its announcement of the scholarship awards.

____________________________________(date) _________

Applicants who are under 18 should have this document co-signed by a parent or guardian.

(co-signer) ____________________________________ (date) __________

Book Review: "Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife"

BOOK REVIEW – “Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgon’s Journey into the Afterlife” by Eben Alexander, M.D. (Simon & Schuster, 2012)
By Tom Brown
At least two dozen books about the afterlife cram my bookshelf, but Dr. Alexander’s book, which I just found at a thrift store last week, is by far the most persuasive. He details the 7 days he spent in a coma with bacterial meningitis, which invaded his brain’s neocortex, an outer layer that controls most higher functions, like speech, memory and consciousness.
During this period, his family and friends held a vigil in his hospital room around the clock, with someone holding his hand at all times. Alexander had what he calls a very deep Near Death Experience, more intense than the fairly common NDEs that occur with cardiac arrest. He lays out the various images he saw or felt in this coma – some nightmarish (feeling buried in muck at earthworm level), others delightful (flying over hills and villages). I won’t give you the spoiler of his peak experience, except to tell you it was NOT the blinding white light found in other NDE testimonies.
The result was that Alexander, formerly a skeptic about an afterlife, became convinced it exists and is more than just a last-minute chemically-induced hallucination as we pass into death. He now is an ardent advocate of prayer and meditation and a co-founder of www.eternea.org, a web site about science and spirituality.
I have ordered a couple of copies of his book for our church library, in case you’d like to peruse it. I will caution you that his book is simply a testimony about an afterlife and unconditional love, not an argument that any particular religion is the one true faith. He says nothing about seeing Jesus (or Moses or Mohammad or Buddha), or his own deceased relatives. Nor does he discuss such theological doctrines as sin, hell, end-times, repentance, salvation, final judgment, free will, or accountability.
The book uses a lot of medical jargon about the brain, but it is explained clearly for the layman. Included is a reading list for dozens of other books about near-death experiences. An unexpected bonus for me was Alexander’s chapter about being an adoptee and how feelings of abandonment weighed him down for years before his biological relatives agreed to meet him.

FOOTNOTE: Dozens of additional reviews of the book -- some positive, others negative -- can be found at www.goodreads.com. If anyone is interested in meeting informally for a God Gab disucssion of the book, speak to Tom and we'll see if we can set up a date.

Board issues agenda for 2020 Annual Meeting

The congregation of New Church Family will gather at noon Sunday, Feb. 9, for its 2020 Annual Meeting.

Here is the tentative agenda prepared by the board of directors:

1. Call to Order – Opening Prayer
2. Certification of quorum – Need 20% of active membership
3. Acceptance of this Agenda for 2020 Annual Congregational Meeting
4. Acceptance of last year’s Annual Meeting minutes (2/19)
5. Discussion and approval of 2020 Budget ($34,100, down from 2019 spending of $37,707)
6. Election of Board Members for open seats in 2020: To run for the NCF Board of Directors
you must have been a member of NCF for at least 6 months and be willing and able to perform
the job duties presented in the Bylaws. There are three open seats, each with a two-year term.
7. Discussion of Bylaw interpretation of quorum for board meetings
8. Discussion of goals for 2020:
9. Other New Business:
10. Announcement of the Board of Directors election results.
11. Adjournment and Closing Prayer
This meeting is to be followed by a brief Organizational Meeting of the Board of Directors with
the newly elected members in the conference room. The meeting will allow the Board to elect its
officers for the year. The meeting is open to all who wish to attend.

NCF Board meeting Jan. 7, 2020 Agenda

New Church Family Board Meeting Jan. 7, 2020 5 p.m.


1. Call to Order in NCF Conference Room

a. Opening Prayer:

b. Note attendees:

2. Review and Acceptance of Agenda

3. Acceptance of Minutes

4. Pastor’s Report

5. President’s Report

6. Vice President’s Report

7. Treasurer’s Report

a. 2020 Budget BOD approval

8. Building And Grounds Director Report

9. Social Director’s Report

a. NCF Board Of Directors’ Award

b. Donation Letter

10. Old Business

a. Cookbook:

b. Jeff Farance Library Plaque

c. Pastoral Search Committee

d. Renovation of our church marquee.

11. New Business
a. First Step Shelter
b. Appointment of a Director Of Liturgy

c. Game Day schedule for February

e. Notify the congregation of upcoming NCF Annual Meeting

f. Office Hours

12. Agenda Additions from the Floor

a. Pledge Drive

b.

c.

13. Next Meeting Date, Feb 09, 2020

14. Adjournment and prayer

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